9 To 12 Months
Before
· Determine who will officiate at the
ceremony. · Select a wedding date and time. · Announce
your engagement in the newspaper. · Determine how many guests may
attend. · Determine the type of wedding you want (size, formality,
style, color scheme). · Select and order the bridesmaids'
dresses. · Establish a preliminary budget. · Select and
secure a photographer. · Select a caterer if not already provided by
the reception. · Select and secure your reception location.
· Select and secure your ceremony location. · Select and
secure your DJ / MC. · Begin choosing your wedding cake baker,
videographer, and florist. Sign necessary contracts. · Pick out
engagement ring with fiancé. 6 To 9 Months Before · Start
compiling the guest list (inform your families to do the same). ·
Select the attendants for your wedding party. · Shop for the wedding
dress, headpiece, veil, etc. · Start planning for honeymoon.
· Register with a gift bridal registry in your favorite
store.
4 To 6 Months Before
·
Make appointments for a physical exam with your doctor/dentist. ·
Check requirements for blood test and marriage license in your state
· Shop for wedding rings. · Select and order the invitations
and stationery. · Decide where to live after the wedding.
· Complete the guest lists. · Begin shopping for trousseau.
· Send your engagement announcement to the newspaper. ·
Inform mothers to select their dresses. · Select and order the men's
attire. · Finalize honeymoon details and make the necessary
reservations.
2 To 4 Months Before
· Confirm the menu and catering details with the caterer.
· Prepare all maps and directions for the ceremony and reception.
· Select your wedding rings. · Buy a wedding guest
book. · Set the dates and times with the officiant for the
rehearsal. · Plan the bridesmaids' luncheon and any other
parties. · Determine your resources for designing and printing the
program for the ceremony. · Finalize the florist details,
photographer, videographer, DJ/MC, etc. · Arrange the necessary
accommodations for out-of-town guests. · Plan a rehearsal dinner,
time and place. · Confirm the wedding cake details with the
baker.
6 To 8 Weeks Before
·
Mail invitations and announcements. · Prepare a portrait for the
newspaper. Check your local newspaper for details and timing. · Set
appointment with photographer for your formal bridal portrait. ·
Select gifts for all your attendants. · Set appointments with any
hairdressers and/or makeup artists. · Hire the limousine or other
forms of transportation for the wedding.
4 To 6
Weeks Before
· Decide what your menu is going to be for
the reception. Estimate the expected number of guests. · Buy a gift
for the groom. · Schedule a final fitting for your gown so it can be
ready for your formal bridal portrait. · Purchase a going away
outfit. · Pick up your wedding rings. · Purchase (borrow)
all wedding accessories such as the ring pillow, goblets, garter belt, candles,
etc. · Confirm florist details and delivery times. · Plan
the seating for the reception as well as other details for the ceremony and
reception. Start writing placement cards. · Make sure all
bridesmaids' attire has been fitted. · Buy a gift for the bride.
2 Weeks Before
· Set up final
consultation with your DJ/MC. · Make arrangements to have your
wedding gifts moved to your new home. · Handle business and legal
details such as name changes, address changes, etc. · Prepare the
wedding announcement for the newspaper. · Reconfirm your guests'
accommodations. · Make sure all clothing and accessories for you and
the bridal party are ready. · Get your marriage license and any
blood tests which are needed.
The Week
Before
· Review any seating details with the ushers.
· Make sure all wedding attire fits. · Finalize the
seating arrangements. · Reconfirm your honeymoon reservations.
Ensure you have any necessary plane tickets. · Start packing for
your honeymoon. · Call any guests who have not responded yet.
· Finish all the place cards for the reception. · Review
all the final details with your photographer, videographer, etc. ·
Give a final head count to the caterer. · Delegate responsibilities
to reliable individuals on your wedding day. · Wrap and present the
wedding party gifts. · Finalize your rehearsal dinner arrangements
or other plans. The Day Before · Get a manicure or massage to relax
yourself. · Stay with your family the night before and go to sleep
early. · Review and rehearse all the details of your participants.
The Big Day · Make sure the best man and maid of honor sign the
wedding certificate. · Allow yourself plenty of time to get dressed.
· Enjoy your wonderful wedding and cherish each and every
moment!!! · Be sure to eat properly. · Rest and relax
with a good bath. · Prepare for your hairdresser and makeup
appointments.
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